Hi, my name is Jeff. I was a member of the US Coast Guard for almost 10 years. I am also divorced. I find that I am growing tired of how men and women interact in America. During my time in the Coast Guard I visited many Eastern Carribean countries, and I really got attached to how women in places like Dom Rep, Panama, and Columbia treat their men. I'm looking for affection and understanding, and I'm also looking to give as much as I get. After being married, I can say that there is a large difference in being told you are loved than when you can feel loved. I used to be able to speak a good deal of Spanish, but I haven't spoken it in 11 years. I'm afraid I will need to rely heavily on the translator on this website.